A divorced woman has been left heartbroken after her boyfriend of more than one year unexpectedly left her in November and “vanished”.
But more than that was the discovery the 40 year old woman from Zhejiang Province Of China identified as Wang Qi made that has left her dumbfounded.
According to NetEase, the single mother had met a new younger ‘man’ online, simply identified as Qian in 2016, who relentlessly pursued her despite her protest that they weren’t compatible given the circumstances that she is a divorced mother.
He continued wooing her and they soon became close, which progressed into a relationship in June 2016. They moved in together the following year,and she even accompanied Qian to meet his parents in his home city of Haikou.
However, their relationship came to a rather abrupt end in November 2017 when Qian suddenly disappeared. He did not answer his phone and he had changed his WeChat account name, causing Wang to believe that he had found a new girlfriend.
But Wang refused to let him get away without a word of explanation, particularly considering the fact that she had spent around 300,000 yuan on him. She began to search all over for Qian and in the process discovered something that she did not expect. Her estranged boyfriend’s identification card listed him as female.
Following that shocking revelation, Wang began to think about details of their relationship. She told reporters that Qian was flat-chested and did not look like a woman, adding that “he” would always use the men’s bathroom in public places.
Although they would regularly sleep together in the same bed and were affectionate towards each other, they had yet to have sexual intercourse with Qian maintaining that they should wait until marriage, Wang explained.
Believing that she had been scammed, Wang made the trip to Haikou to confront Qian’s parents. However, Qian’s father said that Wang was a liar and that she was falsely accusing Qian because of a financial dispute.
He added that Qian was his only daughter, but that from childhood she had always been a “tomboy” and liked to dress up in men’s clothes. However, he insisted that this was only a kind of “hobby” for her.
What is clear is that Qian has not been a great boyfriend whether she identifies as a man or woman.
A similar incident took place in Henan China, in 2016 when a man found out that his supposed “pregnant bride” was a woman, after “she” vanished three days after their wedding, taking thousands of yuan worth of gifts and valuables.